How to Kiss a Girl Confidently
Have you ever been out with a girl and felt that strange feeling when you knew you had to escalate things, but you felt so nervous that you couldn’t follow through?
Most guys will encounter this at some point in their dating lives, so don’t feel bad. Personally, I used to be pretty good at getting dates, but I would blow it again and again because I didn’t know how to kiss a woman.
Firstly, if you can get a girl to go out with you and you have an inkling that she may even be interested in you, then you are getting better results than most guys are experiencing. You just have to up the ante and kiss the woman.
The real problem is in your mind. Your mind is most likely racing “What if she just wants to be friends? How could I handle that?”.
None of this really matters.
There are no fool-proof ways to find out if a woman likes you or not.
What you should do instead is find out fast if she is worth your time or not.
So you need to kiss her at a decent moment like at the end of a date. After you get some experience with this you will just feel that it is time to kiss. Things will just seem right and you will know automatically what to do.
As you go in to kiss her, she will react in one of two ways.
One, you two will start to make out and have all kinds of racy fun.
Or second, she shoots you down. If you get this reaction, be relieved! This girl just proved to you that she is not worth your time and now you can move on to other girls.
Simply say something relaxed such as, “Hey you can’t blame a guy for trying. ” or “Just take it as a compliment.” End the date at your first chance. Treat her like she is just a friend and don’t let the situation become awkward.
Then everything is left to her. If she starts to regret her decision, let her be the one to call you. But leave it to her. You should be spending time with women who do like you romantically.
Here is a personal example of how to kiss a girl.
Last year, I met up with a girl that I was really eager to go out with. Every once in a while, you meet a woman that just makes you quiver with excitement at the thought of hooking up with her. This was one of those girls.
I took her out to lunch at one of my favorite places in the city. She invited me back to her place afterward to show me some art she was working on. We sat on her sofa and talked.
Then a silence fell over us.
It was certainly time to kiss her. I had no idea what would happen, but I went with it anyway. I let the awkward moment hang for a while, then I said, “I really wan to kiss you. “ Then I leaned in and kissed her.
There was a little inital resistance, but soon she just relaxed into it. Stay in control of the situation and don’t let up at the first hint of resistance. She will make it very plain if she doesn’t want you to kiss her. But you will probably find she will put up a little resistance, but that will quicly fade.
Also be a man and stay in control of the make out session. A lot of girls will try to kiss you in their own way in the beginning. Be firm and direct with your kissing and she will relax and let you take the lead.
Afterward I leaned back and said “I’ve wanted to do that for a really long time. “ That lit her up and we went on to have a lot of fun.
So that is how you can kiss a girl the right way. It might be frightening to lay all your cards out on the table like that, but that’s what makes dating so much fun.
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I know how you feel buddy because wondering when the first kiss should happen was something I used to do too. I mean, heck I didn’t want to be rejected and make things seem all awkward. Looking back now, I was mistaken.
If she rejects your advances for the kiss that is fine. As long as you escalate the situation and just move in for the kiss (assuming she likes you) chances are she will let you kiss her.
I hope you realize that kissing girls doesn’t mean you should make a big fuss about it because it’s not that much of a big deal. Remember, girls take our lead, and they follow. If you don’t make a fuss about kissing her, then she won’t also. That is why I’m telling you to make going for the kiss a casual thing. Just move in for the kiss when you two have a “connection”. If you are looking for a guide that will show you how to kiss girls step by step (because you think this article is too theoretical) then I have also done you a favor and included an article below.
Before you check out my article on kissing girls, I advise you to remember to keep everything casual. You as the guy, need to man up and make sure you can make the situation easy for her and comfortable with your presence. If you do get rejected the first time when you move in for the kiss, relax, and just remember you can always go in for the kiss later on.
If you find yourself making a big issue about the kiss and find yourself being rejected, you’re going to make the mistake of making a big issue about it and that’ll make everything just awkward. As a man you have to control the situation and don’t make things uncomfortable.
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